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Styling School is in Session: All About Lamps

Heads up! 👋 My SOLD OUT Create your Dream Home virtual workshop kicks off tomorrow but there’s still a few spaces left in next week’s course happening on Tuesday and Wednesday!

The price goes up tomorrow at midnight. Register here. (Do it with your spouse and you’ll actually start to agree with each other on what there is to do–woo hooo 🙌).

Styling School is in Session!

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Learn All About Lamps

You will not be surprised to hear the first lesson is all about lamps. It’s still winter which means you’re forced to use your overhead lighting WAY.TOO.MUCH.

Since my home is filled with lamps everywhere, the place I end up feeling most assaulted by harsh, glaring overhead lighting is in restaurants. Do you ever feel this way too?

Most people (well obviously not you so much–you’re reading this post after all) are blissfully oblivious of the need for more lamps in their homes. It’s no wonder that this same oversight often extends to restaurants. After all, the same people who live in homes without lamps (which is most people) also build and design restaurants.

There are many restaurants I will NOT patronize because the lighting is so bad.

If restaurant owners ONLY knew all they needed was fabulous lighting (even if the decor isn’t that good) combined with good food – their restaurants would be full at all times.

No more naked bulbs

I was in a restaurant a couple months ago that happened to have a traditional chandelier (with naked light bulbs) over each table. As I was leaving, I commented on the lighting to the owner who happened to be standing at the entry. He said, “Yes we’ve been looking for better lighting but we can’t find anything.”

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I replied, ‘This is an easy fix: invest in lampshades for each fixture, and you’ll find guests reluctant to leave.”

Then I pointed out, “Notice how every patron has requested seating in your enclosed patio area? The main dining room sits empty, and there’s a reason for that. The harsh, direct lighting assaults their eyes, creating an uncomfortable atmosphere. While guests may not consciously recognize this when they ask to be seated elsewhere, the effect is immediate and visceral.” #truthbomb

My favorite shades to add to chandeliers:

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The fascinating part is that most people don’t consciously connect their discomfort to the lighting. If they did, we would all own more lamps – the end! This unconscious reaction to lighting is a powerful force in shaping customer experience and comfort.'”

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The simple fix for lighting

There’s a restaurant in Yaletown called the Blue Water Cafe. Wall sconces with white shades—not opaque ones, and yes, there’s a big difference—grace each column, casting a beautiful, soft light all around.

Blue Water Cafe

During Terreeia’s 70th birthday dinner at Wally’s Desert Turtle in Palm Desert, I noticed their lighting design. The restaurant features sconces mounted on each column.

While the lampshades would look more elegant in white (which would reduce the need for additional overhead lighting), the designers made a smart choice by adding plastic diffusers to the bottom of each fixture. These diffusers help create soft, flattering lighting throughout the space.

Wally's Desert Turtle

Here’s another restaurant with wonderful lighting. However, it’s really sad how few proprietors actually get it.

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What movie set designers know that you don’t…

Have you ever noticed just how many lamps and wall sconces appear in nearly every movie or TV show? In fact, during countless nighttime scenes, you’ll often find an actor positioned near a wall sconce glowing softly behind them.

In fact the only time you’ll see overhead lighting on TV is in hospital shows. Which is exactly the effect your house has at night with all the overhead lights on. It makes me sad when I drive by homes at night and see all the brightly lit rooms in house after house.

That’s exactly why Module 1 of my latest online course is entirely focused on lamps. It’s practically an emergency that everyone you know takes this training! That’s why I made it super affordable!

Still don’t believe me? Go ahead and buy 4 lamps with white shades and place one in each corner of your living room. I promise, you’ll instantly be converted. You’ll never want to return to the harsh, overhead lighting that feels more suited for an operating room!

I see you “people with dimmers.” Before you jump into my comments… hear me out. I stayed in a vacation rental last week and while it was beautifully decorated, it had only one lamp in the living room. Their overhead lighting was in fact on a dimmer, BUT it failed to alter the atmosphere.

Are you making these common lighting mistakes?

Beautiful lighting matters more than you think. Let me know in the comments if you’ve said any of the following…

1. “I have enough lamps already”


→ Actually, most homes are dramatically under-lit. I’ll show you the secret formula for perfect lighting.
2. “My lamps look dated or awkward”

→ Learn how to choose the right lampshades that transform any base into a designer statement.
3.“The light never looks quite right”

→ Discover the exact bulbs that create that warm, inviting glow you’re missing.
4.“Lamps aren’t practical with kids/pets”

→ I’ll share smart solutions for family-friendly lighting that’s both beautiful and durable.
5.“I’m not sure where lamps should go”

→ Get my foolproof placement guide for lighting that enhances your decor.
6.“My tables are too full for lamps”

→ Learn my designer tricks for incorporating lamps without sacrificing function.
7.“I can’t find lamps I actually like”

→ I’ll teach you how to spot winners and transform basic lamps into stunning pieces.
8.“I’m planning to install lots of overhead lighting in my new build or renovation”

→ STOP! I’m about to save you thousands of dollars and show you how to create much better lighting for less.

 

 

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lamps in the kitchen

Overhead lighting is overrated

The vacation rental in Palm Desert I just mentioned, was beautifully decorated with every detail considered. However there was only one lamp sitting in the living room.

This proves over and over that lamps have been given a bad rap over the years while shiny new LED recessed lights got happily installed everywhere. This trend needs to go away.

And I know why people often default to adding more overhead lights—it’s easier. Each new fixture means one less light source you have to thoughtfully choose.

But trust me, that shortcut can lead to a space that feels harsh and uninviting. Instead, take the time to curate your lighting. It’s worth it for a space that truly feels like home.”

Need help with you lighting? I’ve got you!

Which is why this course is here at the right time because I’m going to teach you how to choose lamps so you can leave the recessed lighting in the kitchen. Oh and maybe one in your shower after you add sconces to your bathroom mirrors.

Are you convinced yet?

I hope so because your house is about to get a lot more fabulous. It’s the EASIEST makeover you’ll ever do.

You can access this course for FREE with your Colour Designer membership inside True Colour Insider. Membership is $39/month or $399/year and you can access over $1,000 in online training for FREE with your membership. Plus, you can connect with other like-minded decorators to chat about your home projects. JOIN HERE

Not sure the community is for you? This course is only $39 and you can buy it here.

COMING SOON: All About Pillows

Let me share a quick story: During a one-day makeover at my client services manager’s home, simply updating her throw pillows created such a dramatic transformation that she cancelled her plans to buy a new sofa! That’s the power of knowing how to use color and accessories correctly.

As a member, you’ll get exclusive access to:
  • My comprehensive NEW pillow course coming out next month!
  • My proven mood board course with support from the community – we LOVE mood boards in True Colour Insider!
  • Weekly behind-the-scenes team meetings where we solve real design challenges
(Watch us make colour and design decisions for entire homes, inside and out – we’ve recorded these valuable sessions for over a year!)
  • My complete 8-Module Business of Colour course for anyone looking to create a colourful side business
  • Our supportive community of design enthusiasts who love timeless decorating just as much as YOU do
You’ll never have to make another design decision alone. Our community members are always ready to offer feedback and help you create a home you’ll love for years to come.

This course has 6 lessons

Do we ever stop decorating? No? Which means there is always a new colour decision to make. Because every design decision is also a colour decision.

Join True Colour Insider as a COLOUR DESIGNER to get access to this course (plus many others) for just $39/month! 

Or, get Styling School: Lamps here.

 

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